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Values

What you value determines what you choose, whether you realize it or not.


Every decision reflects a priority. This principle helps you identify what is truly driving your choices, not just what you say matters.

WHY THIS PRINCIPLE MATTERS

Many people feel conflicted, stretched thin, or out of alignment with their own lives. They want peace, clarity, and purpose, yet their daily choices pull them in different directions.


This principle matters because confusion is often the result of unexamined or competing values. When values are unclear, decisions feel heavy and exhausting.


Clarity begins when you slow down and ask what is actually guiding your choices.

Think:

People rarely take inventory of their values but allow external influences to determine them. 


Tension often comes from living by values you never consciously chose. 

WHAT THIS PRINCIPLE TEACHES

This principle teaches you how to:
• Identify the values shaping your decisions
• Recognize values you inherited rather than chose
• Notice conflicts between stated values and lived behavior
• Align choices with what matters most
• Make decisions with greater clarity and consistency


Values are revealed through action, not intention.

HOW IT SHOWS UP IN REAL LIFE

 You see this principle at work when:
• You feel torn between competing priorities
• You say yes when you want to say no
• You feel guilt or resentment around your choices
• Your time and energy do not reflect what you claim to value
• You feel disconnected from your sense of purpose


These moments often point to values that need to be clarified or realigned.

SKILLS YOU BUILD HERE

Through this principle, you learn to build practical skills such as:
• Clarifying personal priorities
• Evaluating decisions through a values lens
• Setting boundaries that protect what matters most
• Saying no without excessive explanation
• Choosing alignment over approval


When values are clear, decisions become lighter.

CONNECTION TO THE FRAMEWORK

 

Values follows Willingness because clarity requires honesty. Once a person is willing to face discomfort and take responsibility, values come into focus.


Beliefs shape behavior. Choices create consequences. Willingness opens the door. Values determine direction.


This principle provides the compass for everything that follows.

WHERE TO BEGIN

Values are not discovered in theory. They are clarified through reflection and practice.


Explore the tools and teachings designed to help you identify, refine, and live from values that align with who you want to become.

Take a Short Assessment

When values are clear,

the next wise choice becomes easier to see.

Who Is Pulling Your Strings?

We use the marionette to represent values because values pull the strings behind every choice. 


When values are inherited, unexamined, or conflicted, decisions are guided by forces we may not even notice. 


Clarity comes when we identify who or what is pulling the strings and choose which values will guide our movement.


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